Considerations When Buying a Home With Someone Else

May 2, 2024 by Blue Square Mortgage

We recently posted about how women without a partner are more likely to buy a home later in life than men, owing to earnings and social differences. Having a partner often can make it easier to afford a home, but can sometimes make it harder. In fact, there is data showing that one in seven prospective homebuyers would walk away from a spouse or partner in order to climb the property ladder.

Because your choice of who to cohabitate with can make or break your ability to afford a comfortable home and lifestyle, there are some important questions you need to ask going into the process. Let’s go over some key considerations when choosing to buy a home with another person.

Do they share your financial and lifestyle goals? If you and the other person are on the same page with respect to your financial and lifestyle goals, both now and over the long term, that may mean you will fit well together. If you are on totally different pages, that could create financial issues when sharing a home.
Are they a viable contributor? Someone might have the same “goals” as you, but if they are not willing to put in the work for those goals as much as you are, they are more like “dreams” or “preferences” for that person. Make sure you are moving in with someone you can rely on to keep contributing according to whatever agreement you make.
Will you be able to live together compatibly? Of course, once the practical financial considerations above are dealt with, you still need to make sure you are moving in with someone you can stand and vice versa.
What will happen if you part ways? Hopefully, you will move in with someone super compatible and have a great experience living together. But if it doesn’t work out or either party wants to move on, you need to have a plan in advance for what will happen to the property.

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Buying a home with a spouse, family member, or friend can be complex, but the right mortgage can save you and everyone else paying on the loan money. We can help connect you with a suitable mortgage in Washington State or Colorado. To get started, please give us a call at (206) 352-6453.

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00:08 23 May 20

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15:29 05 Mar 20

I am in the business and have done over 1,000 real estate transaction, have several rentals and Mike did a bang up Job.

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06:15 12 Jan 20

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Kyle Acheson

18:44 31 Dec 19

Mike was great to work with. He really helped us through the process and answered all of our questions timely and thoroughly. Would work with again.

Jeffrey Bley

18:49 20 Dec 19

Mike Peacore was thorough and very helpful in getting me a competitive rate. He always kept me up to date on the current status, and was more than happy to help explain things to me when there was something I didn't understand. I was able to make informed decisions and I was very happy with my refinance. Thanks Mike!

Michael Medvedev

03:59 18 Dec 19

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Steven Jones

22:23 25 Nov 19

You couldn’t ask for a better guy to do a home refi with! Mike Peacore did a wonderful job,we closed in about 6 weeks! He made it easy and very stress free! He went out of his way to let me know what was going on at all times! He worked with me way after the regular 8 to 5 business! He is a great guy and does great work! I couldn’t even imingae going with anyone else after working with him! You won’t be disappointed if you go with Mike Peacore at blue square Mortage! I will definitely be telling my friends and family about him! I will call him for my next refi! Thanks for everything Mike! You are the man!!!

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17:07 19 Aug 19

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Jennifer Teunon

22:34 05 Mar 19

Mike Peacore was incredibly professional and easy to work with. During our recent refinance, we weren’t sure of our exact timeline, and he never pressured us to move forward before we were ready. Once we did make a decision, he helped us act quickly and secure a good rate. Throughout the entire process, Mike was always accessible and responsive, friendly, and constantly looking out for our best interests. I would highly recommend Mike and Blue Square Mortgage.

B Larson

17:54 18 Feb 19

Mike Peacore at Blue Square Mortgage helped make the refinance process hassle free. He has great rates, provided fast service, quick responses to our questions, and accurate information about the process and specific details. Mike is knowledgeable about all the things we needed to know about market values and mortgages. We live in Bellingham--90 miles north of Seattle--but that distance was a non-issue. It was as convenient as it would be if we lived in Seattle.

Vince Tasso

18:29 11 Feb 19

Mike helped me with my first condo purchase. He was great through each step of the process and even attended the signing with me in-person. He's very knowledgeable and open to discussing all questions any time! I would highly recommend him to anyone in the Seattle area looking to buy a home!

Pete Larsen

15:07 12 Oct 18

I just can't say enough good things about Mike Peacore and his dedication to his clients. Mike found us financing after a bitter experience with a high profile broker who turned us away after glancing at our financials: the issue being years of self-employment. With Mike's assistance, we were able to follow our strategy of buying a smaller place before marketing our existing home. Five stars aren't enough!

Andrew Tasso

20:10 07 Oct 18

In short, Blue Square Mortgage was the driving force on my home closing. Mike, at Blue Square Mortgage was referred by a friend who had worked with Mike on prior home purchases. Mike worked tirelessly with my fiance and I to ensure that we were getting the best possible mortgage rate for our first home purchase. His business acumen and industry experience was easily identified in our first phone call, where he explained the in's and out's of lender proceedings for a first time home buyer. Mike is an expert is what he does, and brought a very personal touch to a transactional process. There is no doubt I will be working with Mike and Blue Square Mortgage again when the time comes to purchase a new home.

Wendi Bernard

16:26 13 Sep 18

We have worked with Mike Peacore of Blue Square Mortgage multiple times in the purchase of our home and subsequent refinancing. At every step of the process, Mike was knowledgeable, supportive, professional and efficient. When we buy our next home, Mike will be our first call. We highly recommend Mike Peacore of Blue Square Mortgage.

William Rodgers

21:39 11 Sep 18

Mike was well prepared, honest, and very customer focused. Love working with him.

Erik Murphy

20:25 07 Sep 18

Blue Square Mortgage has helped us secure a couple new home loan and refinance our existing loans. I know I can count on Mike Peacore to diligently track down all the required paperwork and make the loan happen. Mike is very helpful and knowledgeable about rates and loan options. I highly recommend Blue Square Mortgage.

mike bon

22:36 23 Aug 18

Mike is extremely professional, knowledgeable, straightforward and a great communicator. I have known and have worked with Mike for 25+ years. He is driven to accomplish all your needs and goals. Both new and returning clients stay with Mike and highly recommend him. Mike is easy to recommend to others for all their mortgage needs!

Caroline Miceli

23:00 10 Aug 18

I really enjoy working with Mike--he helps keep the mortgage and borrowing intimidation factor to a minimum, and it becomes much less confusing. I've called him to just talk through the market and what may be possible in terms of future borrowing. For our last home purchase Mike was great at searching for the best rates and loans for us and he even advising us to hold off for a few days as even better rates may be around the corner--and they were! We locked in a great interest rate as a result!

C O

00:27 06 Aug 18

I've worked with Mike multiple times on loans and refis over the last few years. The experience has always been fantastic and I've recommended him to other friends and colleagues.

J Cordick

22:02 30 Jul 18

I have used Blue Square for years and Mike is consistently up to speed on rates, what banks/credit unions are doing and why to use certain ones and not others, and always helpful. He will not only coach you through the process, but if you are not an attorney and are not super detailed, this is your company. He makes sure you understand (in regular terms) what the sheets are for and how the process works....GREAT experience.

Kassandre Aytch

21:20 26 Jun 18

I used Blue Square Mortgage (Mike Peacor) back when I first bought my house and he also just helped me complete my refinance. He is so incredibly helpful and a pleasure to work with. It was my first refinance and he is so knowledgeable and able to answer all of my questions. He stays on top throughout the whole process and his communication is right on point. He is just a really really great person to work with!!

karl vogel

04:14 14 Nov 17

Mike is top notch when it comes to your loan experience. Knowledgeable and prompt with his response. It makes buying a home very easy!

Mozzie Pants

16:09 18 Feb 15

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Deborah Fields

23:49 19 Sep 13

I would like to highly recommend Mike Peacore and Blue Square Mortgage for the exceptional service and finishing two mortgages for me in the last six years.Mike helped me get my first mortgage on a townhouse in Puyallup and then fast forward to this year when I became eligible for a HARP (re-finance) loan he made it happen. Originally I had gone to Wells Fargo (the loan holder) but after 4 months of wasted promises, I called Mike - and all the reasons Wells said I couldn't qualify and they couldn't make it happen - MIKE DID IT!I should have called Mike in the first place, but thought I had to go to the current loan holder - Silly me - he got me a great rate, he was informative, patient and gave it everything he had to make this happen. He got done in TWO MONTHS what Wells could not do in four...Don't go anywhere else - if you need assistance with your mortgage, first home, investment property, re-fi - whatever. Mike can help you!

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